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How Do I Stop Sinning?

Theology: #addiction, #consecration, #temptation

Stop trying to resist temptation through your own effort; let God kill your desire to sin so that you sin no more, effortlessly.

Have you ever tried to stop sinning or overcome an addiction? When trying harder does not seem to work, you might be tempted to give up, even on the faith. But before you do that, consider whether the problem is in your understanding of temptation and how it works rather than your inability to resist it. Change your understanding of temptation to a biblical model rather than a humanistic one, and then you will find that deliverance from temptation is through God’s power rather than your own.

Behaviorism

A common faulty understanding of temptation comes from behaviorism, the dominant school of thought in psychology until about the 1950’s. Behaviorists believe in a stimulus-response model that de-emphasizes personal choice. You neither have a choice of whether to be tempted, nor do you have a choice in your response to temptation.

Behaviorism = slavery
TemptationSin

Therefore, temptation always leads to sin—a form of slavery. Unfortunately, this is the lived reality of those who have been abusively programmed to respond to a triggered stimulus against their choice.

An incomplete list of how to take away a person’s free choice
Examples
PhysicalDrugs, physical damage
EmotionalAbandonment, deprivation, fear
MentalDeception, hypnosis
SpiritualCovenants, demons

If this describes your condition, then take heart that behaviorism is neither biblical, nor even the final word in psychology. Jesus can deliver you from temptation and sin, breaking the link between the two so that you do not have to continue to sin in response to a trigger, even if you had an abusive past. God is stronger than your triggers.

Cognitivism

A more popular model of temptation these days, including among Christians, is cognitivism. Cognitivists believe that thinking precedes behavior, and therefore you have a choice whether to sin or not. If your therapist is using cognitive behavioral therapy, or your pastor is preaching that “the battleground is in the mind”, then they have adopted a cognitive model of temptation.

On the face of it, a cognitive model of temptation seems to align with Scripture and experience. Temptation is unavoidable but you can resist giving into it like Jesus did ; ; by “taking every thought captive” through the “renewal of your mind” To cognitivists, resisting temptation is a matter of changing your thinking. This brings up a theological and practical problem: the responsibility of resisting temptation falls on you.

Cognitivism then, is a form of salvation by works.

Cognitivism = salvation by works
TemptationSinChoice to sin

For those who come from an abusive background, they cannot control their triggered responses, and thus a cognitive model of treatment leads to condemnation when they cannot change their thinking or the triggers fire anyway. Furthermore, the Bible surprisingly does not command us to resist temptation! We are to resist the devil and flee from temptation but nowhere in the Bible does it say, “resist temptation”, and therein lies the clue as to why cognitivism is the wrong model of temptation.

Statements like, “temptation is not a sin” sound right and are frequently preached upon, but they are theological statements rather than biblical ones. You can make a theological case that temptation is not a sin because Jesus was tempted but was without sin but nowhere in the Bible does it say, “temptation is not sin”. You have to make a logical inference from Scripture to come to that conclusion, but that inference can be misleading or incomplete, as we will show later in this article.

Biblical Model of Temptation

To do that, let’s compare the biblical model of temptation to behaviorism and cognitivism based on The Bible says your evil desire leads you to temptation (vs 14), and then eventually to sin (vs 15). Sin inevitably brings forth death (vs 15).

The Desire → Sin pipeline of Jas 1:14-15
Desire14: desire is evilSin15: Result of desireTemptation14: not from GodDeath15: Result of sin

Note that this pipeline model of temptation starts with desire, what the Bible calls the “sin nature” or “flesh” and ends with death. The main problem of addiction is not temptation but the evil desire in you. This evil desire is something you are born with ; so the biblical model of temptation is actually closer to behaviorism than cognitivism in that it is impossible for you to not sin, “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God”

The Bible teaches extensively on sin and its consequences, whereas the humanistic behaviorist and cognitive models of temptation do not. They completely miss the root problem of the human condition and therefore only deal with the symptoms, not the root causes of temptation. Temptation is the result of the evil desire within you, not the other way around; therefore, the main battleground is not in your mind, but earlier than that, in your sinful nature, your flesh The biblical solution is not to resist your sin nature and its resulting temptation through your own efforts, but rather, crucify them ; so that they do not cause you to sin.

Theologians call this insight “salvation by grace” in that you are saved from your sins not through your own efforts, but through the finished work of Jesus Christ. The good news, called the “gospel”, is that Jesus saves you from your sins by killing the desire to sin within you and replacing it with His righteousness It’s not something you can do, but rather something that Christ has already done. All you have to do to enjoy salvation from addiction, desire, temptation, and sin is to receive the free gift of salvation in Jesus.

But What About the Human Responsibility for Holiness?

The Desire → Sin pipeline is correct but incomplete because the Bible has more to say about temptation than just We will flesh out our model of temptation by raising three shortcomings with the simplified Desire → Sin pipeline, and then present a fuller biblical model of temptation to account for its missing pieces. The first shortcoming with the simplified Desire → Sin pipeline is that it omits human responsibility for holiness, contrary to many Bible passages that place the responsibility of personal holiness on you rather than God ; ; The second problem is that it implies that temptation is sinful because it is the fruit of evil desire, yet that cannot be right because Jesus was tempted and was without sin The third problem is a pastoral one in that the pipeline does not account for the very common experience of Christians who sincerely believe in Jesus, yet still struggle with evil desires when the gospel promised full deliverance for them.

We answer these problems by noting that the Bible distinguishes between two sources of temptation: the internal temptation of the Desire → Sin pipeline versus the external temptation of evil sources outside of you ;

Internal vs. external temptation
MyselfI have sinnedOthersThey have sinnedTempters are SinnersIt is a sin to tempt someoneDemonResist itPersonEscape it

Jesus pronounces a woe on all those who tempt therefore, all tempters are sinners. That means you are the sinner when you tempt yourself, while others are the sinners when they tempt you. If those tempters are demons, the Bible says you are to resist them and if they are other people, you are to escape them ; by the grace God gives to save you to do good works instead However, if you fall to that external temptation, then it will incite desire in you, which produces internal temptation, then sin, and then death as per the Desire → Sin pipeline.

Relating external temptation to the Desire → Sin pipeline
Yes, becauseit incitedDid youfall to thetemptation?You didnot sinNo, becauseof Eph 2:8-10MyselfI have sinnedOthersThey have sinnedDesireMy desire is evilInternal TemptationMy temptation is sinSinMy responsibilityDeathMy result“But sin... produced in me all kinds of wrong desires.” (Rom 7:8)

On the other hand, if you are the one tempting yourself, then it is already too late—you have already sinned. Jesus said that if you look at a woman with lust, you have already committed adultery even if you do not act on it On the other hand, if that same woman tempts you to commit adultery, you are guilty only if you act on it Therefore, temptation is always a sin, but the sinner is one who is doing the tempting, not the one who is being tempted.

Temptation is sin for you only if you are tempting yourself; however, that sin is unavoidable because you are born with it regardless if you act upon it ; But if you do, then not only have you been born into sin, but you also have committed sin. That sin produces all kinds of evil desires in you creating a vicious cycle which leads to more and more temptation and sin, and eventually death.

Answering the Three Problems

We can now answer the three problems raised by a model of temptation based solely on which focuses on the internal life of the person. It denies that you can avoid sinning as a result of internal temptation because it’s already too late—your desire to sin is already sin.

Problem 1: Your Responsibility for Holiness

External temptation however can and should be resisted, but you are susceptible to falling for it because of the evil desire already within you. You are responsible for living a holy life by resisting external temptation, but you cannot do that unless the evil desire is first killed in you

Problem 2: Jesus’ Temptation Cannot Be Sin

Everyone is born with this sinful nature and that’s why everyone sins The only exception is Jesus. Without a sin nature, He never had to face the internal temptation of nor did He ever sin by tempting Himself. However, He successfully resisted external temptation because there was no evil desire to incite in Him. The sin of temptation belonged to the tempters, not to Jesus. That’s how Jesus could be tempted, yet be without sin while we cannot, because temptation has no hold on a person without a sin nature.

Problem 3: Christians Still Struggle with Evil Desires

This insight gives us the hope and the answer of how you can stop sinning: kill the sin nature in you. Without desire, you will not want to tempt yourself to sin, and other people’s temptation will not work on you as there is no evil desire to incite.

Taking out the root of the Desire → Sin pipeline
MyselfI have sinnedOthersThey have sinnedDesireMy desire is evilInternal TemptationMy temptation is sinSinMy responsibilityDeathMy result“But sin... produced in me all kinds of wrong desires.” (Rom 7:8)Fail to incite

Taking out the root of the Desire → Sin pipeline means the entire pipeline falls apart, and then you will no longer be a slave to sin or addiction. However, and this is key, killing desire is not something you can do, whether you practice a works-based religion such as Buddhism asceticism or even the spiritual disciplines such as Bible study and fasting. This is because desire is caused by sin and only the blood of Jesus can remove sin Therefore, to kill desire, God must first clean you of sin, the producer of desire

Taking out the source of desire
DesireMy desire is evilInternal TemptationMy temptation is sinSinMy responsibilityDeathMy result“But sin... produced in me all kinds of wrong desires.” (Rom 7:8)

Then you will no longer be internally tempted, meaning that you would be free of your addictions and finally be free to stop sinning. This is not something you do through willpower, but rather through accepting the gift of salvation from God. “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast”

How Does God Remove Sin?

To answer this question, we note that the Desire → Sin pipeline has more than a passing similarity to the vicious cycle of sin:

Relating the Desire → Sin pipeline to the vicious cycle of sin
SinAttackDeathInjurytemptscausesresultsresultsinvitesin thepastin thepresentin bothme and othersDesireMy desire is evilInternal TemptationMy temptation is sinSinMy responsibilityDeathMy result“But sin... produced in me all kinds of wrong desires.” (Rom 7:8)

This is because the evil desire in you is a type of spiritual injury that happened in the past. It tempts you to sin, which is a type of spiritual attack in the present. So the Desire → Sin pipeline is really just an example of the vicious cycle of sin; what is true for sin in general is true for the specific case of temptation: all sin leads to slavery and death through the red and blue feedback loops.

The solution then for dismantling the Desire → Sin pipeline is the same as breaking the vicious cycle of sin: apply one of the healing methods based on the gospel of Jesus Christ to comprehensively heal you of everything and set you free.

Take-aways

Humanistic models of temptation are faulty

They fail because they do not account for sin or your inborn sin nature.

Human-centered solutions to temptation do not work

They only manage the results of sin rather than dealing with the root cause.

Grace enables you to do works

You still have to resist external temptation, but you can only do that if God first kills the sin nature in you. Both grace and works are necessary, but grace comes first.

You stop sinning by healing past spiritual injuries

The overwhelming desire to sin comes from injuries due to past sins. Heal those injuries and you will no longer desire to sin.

Further Reading

While this article builds the case for comprehensive healing to overcome addiction, How Can I See God explains how sin separates you from God-the-healer, and the Healing Methods Overview explains the overall theory of how to find God and your healing. How I Cured Myself of Porn is a case study of those concepts in action—how to self-diagnose the root causes of addiction and heal them. More difficult cases of addiction such as Hurting Too Much to Hear God will require third-party help. Who Is Involved in Healing explains the roles and responsibilities of people involved in the healing process, and what to expect from them when asking for help.